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Hacking Through the Jungle

Lynn's picture

I've been sick, sometimes critically, for eight years now. In the last 18 months, I've finally started to feel human.

The problem is, so much stuff has been on hold while we dealt with my illness that it's super backed-up around here, especially after the kitchen disaster/remodel last year, and we're just flat-out overwhelmed.

One of the many good things about the lot sale last year is that we now have a smaller yard that isn't as overwhelming. Even so, getting it squared away was more than we could manage, and we didn't even know where to start. Solving that last problem took the talents of Isobel and Karen at Independence Gardens here in Portland. They came up with a plan for us in steps that we can afford and that will work well for us. (Highly recommended if you're in PDX.)

Today we began tackling the jungle, and for once when I say "we," I mean "we" and not just poor John. I got out there for a couple of hours of hacking at blackberry vines and running the weed whacker. Our neighbor Tony, bless him, even helped out for a while, bringing his own more powerful weed whacker to bear. (Enlightened self-interest; he was both being a good neighbor and knocking down weeds that might invade his own yard. That's fine by me!) John cut down a plum tree that hasn't produced a single plum and that was now in the wrong place, so tight on the corner of the new deck that we couldn't get by. I hate destroying otherwise healthy plants, but it wasn't doing what it was supposed to be doing, and it was impossible to get by it. So out it went.

Now that it's over with, I'm super tired, to the point that I'm still shaking a little. I'm really, REALLY hoping I don't have a fibro flare. Tomorrow I'll have to be a little circumspect. John took Lou to a birthday party I was supposed to take her to. I love that man. But it felt good to be out there finally, taking care of things instead of sitting in a chair watching John curse. Smiling

Now to take some magnesium!

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RhondaG's picture

Tackle it bite by bite for less stress

Smiling Hi, I hope by the time you see this you are feeling much better. I know when you get behind on cleaning or anything else it does put a strain on you. One little trick I have to use when I feel overwhelmed is this:

When I have a room that is really bad, I go inside the room, turn and face the door. Then you can start to the left, or the right, it doesn't matter. Anyway, I start to the left and work my way around the room in a counter clockwise direction. I clean from ceiling to floor. Once you get back to the door, you are done except for the few things that might be in the middle of the room.

This keeps me from having to decide where to start. Hope this helps.

mrstejano's picture

I know how you feel.

I have had Multiple Sclerosis for over 20 years. My dh is wonderful, putting up with a non-organized home. I don't have much energy at all, but today I've resolved do what I can -- one step at a time -- and find things that will allow me to clean my home easily and quickly. This will mean getting rid of (or organizing) all the "things" on the counter top (like in my kitchen). I so admire homes that have nice decorations, but mostly clean counter tops and tables. That is my inspiration! Just take it on day at a time, one "thing" at a time, even one moment at a time, and promise yourself to work at least 5 minutes. Even I can handle that, and I'm sure you can too! Laughing out loud

Lynn's picture

I'm working on it :)

More in an updated blog post soon.

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