For my Daddy

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Submitted by Jilsyt on Sat, 12/23/2006 - 6:31pm.

Mom called this week, said my dad's retina tore in his "good" eye. The other tore a few years ago. He's had surgery to repair the bad eye, but always hoped the other eye wouldn't go. Now, he's had both eyes operated on (had the procedure on Fri) and we're hoping he regains sight. He's barely 59, and doesn't want to retire...CAN'T retire. There's not enough $$ to do so due to a layoff a few years ago.

I've been studying a lot about the power of intention. One lady said that she had been looking into the connection between eye failure and the individual having life situations where they tell themselves they don't want to "see" what is happening. She says they are basically telling their bodies they don't want to see, and so the body obliges. I only consider it because my youngest brother has been living at home and doing some illegal things, and my mom has been paying for the attorney fees (but, don't get me started there!!). I was trying to tell them about this theory, and I kind of hope it's true, because she also said that there had been some successes of people regaining sight when they finally allowed themselves to "see" what was going on.

So, here I am worrying about them. Too far away to do anything, but, I don't think I'd do any good close either. Except, I want to run over there and hug him good and tight. He's so scared he'll totally lose his sight, and he drives mom nuts when he can't see because he assumes she is doing the tasks he'd do "incorrectly" like the driving. She says he's a horrible back-seat driver. Eye-wink But, I really feel his fear. Like I said, I wish I could make it all better, maybe I'll do a fast in his name. I've witnessed a few miracles doing that for other folks, can't hurt.

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be careful

Submitted by Lynn on Sat, 12/23/2006 - 7:40pm.

No one wants to be told that they've caused their illness. Just be careful how you frame this. I'm sure there could be many "you caused it" explanations, for instance, for what happened to me, but I don't want someone telling me I "wanted" to die. (And I know you're not saying that, I'm sayin' be careful, m'dear.)

Having said that, I wish you could make it all better too. Sad Wouldn't it be wonderful if we could do that? I'll add your family to my prayer list.

Lynn Siprelle, Editor

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No, I realize that...

Submitted by Jilsyt on Sun, 12/24/2006 - 10:28am.

I realize that folks don't like to be told they caused anything...heck, I know I wouldn't want to be told I'd caused any of the problems I had. And really, if you think about it, even when you suggest something to your body, you are not the "cause", the prior situation could be given that title. Not that that is any consolation, I'm sure. Anyhow, the point of the article I read was that the person has to come to that conclusion on their own, and want to make the changes to heal. It was on the EFT website, and they stated that often, we don't know what we've done to ourselves. And, personally, I think my dad would do anything at this point (I almost used the cliche: he'd give his right eye, but then I realized that'd be too ironic.) to get his sight back. The successes in the article were what I focused on with them, and I'll let them read the other stuff themselves, if they choose to, if not, then not.

But, really, I just hope he takes it easy and gives himself time to heal, rather than jumping back to work as soon as he can see more than a silhouette. The doctor opted to do laser surgery this time rather than the slice and dice, but dad seems to be in more pain than the prior surgery. I was (and I think he was too) under the impression that laser would be less painful for him. It hasn't been, and the medications are making him sick. I keep praying the side effects of this surgery will wear off soon.

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