Why Are Bloggers So Mean? A Whine

Shaun's picture
Submitted by Shaun on Thu, 04/13/2006 - 9:07am.

Maybe it's the PMS talking, but it just takes about two clicks for me to link from something interesting to something mean-spirited in the blogosphere. Yesterday I happened across a reference to Naomi Wolf's conversion to Christianity (or whatever it was) and in trying to find the full story I found many threads opining that liberals and feminists could never be Christians except for opportunistic reasons -- in very nasty language that I don't care to repeat.

Today I happened across an old account of the Coretta Scott King memorial -- you'd think they'd performed live flayings of babies based on the intensity of the comments.

I don't mean to pick on what are obviously conservative commentors. Frankly, I've abandoned reading the Daily Kos or even my local party blog because all they do is bring me down with snarky comments about political opponents -- I don't dare read the comments thread, where the nastiest stuff lies. Reading the letters/comments sections of Salon can depress me for an entire day, at least.

Here's what I wonder: Does the writing process involved with blogging (shooting from the hip, etc.) necessarily foster lazy thinking? (Particularly of the "tar all with the same brush" variety? ) And aren't there consequences if our public debate shifts more and more into the realm of this lazy thinking?

Blogs also don't talk about news or ideas most of the time -- they talk about other people talking about news or ideas. Isn't there a serious "telephone game" effect going on? That's how I end up clicking around on the net a lot, trying to verify a tidbit I found on one site, only to find that every reference to a "fact" references some other blog that references another blog in a big circle of dubious accuracy.

Now this probably is the PMS talking, but boy the whole thing brings me down and makes me despair even more for the future of informed, well-reasoned discussion of public issues. (That is, even more than I did 5 or 6 years ago, or 10 years ago -- well, basically back at least as far as 1994 and the Gingrich Revolution.)

Maybe I'm just more sensitive than other people about this kind of stuff (I'm one of those who's heard the "you're too sensitive" since I can remember understanding speech), and this rough-and-tumble is nothing new or dangerous. Who was it that put out the false rumor that his political opponent had died? Thomas Jefferson or John Adams, someone like that. (Look it up!)

Just seems a shame that sensitive folk like myself have to be shoved out of public discussions because no one can be bothered to mind their manners.

Thus ends the whine (for today)

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Lynn's picture

blogging

Submitted by Lynn on Thu, 04/13/2006 - 9:46am.

...is an instant gratification art form. Myself, I try to put some thought into it, but then I'm a professional writer of many years who's also used to writing to a deadline. I wrote for radio and TV news for years, so instant gratification writing with some balance is possible for me.

Blogging is opinion journalism, so you're going to get more snark. And snark, frankly, seems to be what people want to read. On my local media news site, I have a bunch of apropos quotes, as I do on the front page here. One of them is from Hedda Hopper, the gossip columnist: "No one is interested in sweetness and light." That's a little extreme but it does speak fairly directly to human nature.

What you have to do is just find which bloggers "work" for you and let the others go. I try to keep TNH positive.

Lynn Siprelle, Editor

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reflection of reality television

Submitted by Kerri on Fri, 04/14/2006 - 1:45am.

it seems that blogging is almost the written version of reality television. It's cheap for sure, it's fairly instant and largely consists of what very ordinary people feel like mouthing off about. That though is a huge generalisation because there are good ones, but because it is the ultimate in free speech there is no way of ensuring that the blogger actually engages their brain before typing. I know I don't when I'm typing my comments on a thread, and I start to ramble, but if it's something sensitive I do make quite an effort to think carefully about what I'm going to say, and I'm getting better at it mostly. I think the enthusiasm for reality television and for reading blogs might possibly stem from the same place though, and neither of them requires ... I suppose neither of them requires an artist, if you see what I mean. Reality television might require a great producer who is very skilled at what they do, but even a fabulous producer isn't creating something completely new out of their own head like a good writer of television plays or dramas.

There is still good television around, but I think it is surrounded by a lot more tripe than it used to be. Same goes for the written word. It's great that people can have a place to say something they feel is important, without having to spend years writing a book about it and then fighting to get a publisher. But without people switching on their internal controls it just descends into the nastiest catfight ever and nobody gets to argue about it because it's just a nobody being spiteful.

I prefer to read blogs like Shaun's, Rose's or Lynn's where the content is about real people and there's no attempt to get one over on someone else. I haven't read most of Lynn's political stuff though, so maybe I should reserve judgment on that! Laughing out loud Where people feel very strongly about things and there are no external controls things can get very heated, even downright rude. Those are not the kind of blogs I would waste my time reading. Life's too full of snark without going online and looking for it too!

Kerri.

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Political Blogging

Submitted by Lynn on Fri, 04/14/2006 - 9:25am.

I don't do too much of it these days; I'm too busy doing actual stuff to blog about it. Smiling

Lynn Siprelle, Editor

silverbear's picture

So true, Kerri!

Submitted by silverbear on Fri, 04/14/2006 - 2:08pm.

I had never considered the correlation b/w reality tv and meanspirited snark. Very interesting!

And thank you for your kind comments about my blog!

Rose

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