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Submitted by Selena on Thu, 01/19/2006 - 2:15pm.

I recently found myself unemployed and w/o hopes of an immediate job Shocked , and though I'm getting in touch w/ my Inner Domestic Goddess Jawdropping! (whom I'd not seen much of in my 5yrs of marraige), I'm missing the contact and interaction of the non-furry kind. I'm finding myself talking to the animals more and more, and hoping that I never understand their responses!

I AM liking being at home more and more. The house has NEVER been cleaner (well, maybe when we bought it, and it was empty!), and I'm discovering that contrary to my previous belief, I'm NOT an idiot in the kitchen! But I find myself just wanting to get together with another human being for a cup of tea or coffee every once and a while to trade secrets. For example: "How do you make your (insert dish here)?" and "How do you get lipstick out of terrycloth". Or to just get out of the house!

So, what are possible ways/resources for a 20-something Non-mom to be social and not hermit-like?Puzzled

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Becky's picture

well....

Submitted by Becky on Thu, 01/19/2006 - 4:27pm.

First of all, you can hang out here!

Otherwise, what kinds of things do you like to do? Do you have a hobby where you could meet with a group? Do you belong to a religion? Can you invite over your old friends from work? Do you have family nearby? Are you interested in doing volunteer work?

Jana's picture

For sure come back here.

Submitted by Jana on Thu, 01/19/2006 - 6:12pm.

I have relied on this guys through think and thin and learned ALOT!

Welcome! Sorry about the job. That is stressful!

Jana

Anhata's picture

Lots of options, unless you live in the boondocks

Submitted by Anhata on Thu, 01/19/2006 - 6:24pm.

Is there a comfy coffee house near you that you can hang out with a book group? One of the first things I did for my social life after having DD was to join a book group that met at a local coffee house. It was great.

If you don't already know, would you be willing to learn to knit or crochet and join a knitting circle? Great gab sessions, you learn more about the craft in one day than you would on your own in a month, and you're out of the house. Or, you could have it at your place, since it's so clean!

Also, cooking or arts & crafs classes are a great way to get out of the house and network. My mother took a stained glass class and made some gorgeous window sun catchers and a large stained glass window that I still drool over.

Or, you could take up a hobby that will take you out of the house, like photography. Or use a skill that you have to assist a charity. Again, using my mother as an example, she can sew (boy can she) so she joined up with a the local S.N.A.P. charity, sewing up bandanas for kitties and doggies and selling them at PetsMart and at area art fairs. She's raised thousands of dollars for a very noble cause and has made some amazing friends.

A little brainstorming, doing local searches in the phone book, community center, library, or on the internet should find you several options that interest you.

Welcome! We can be your invisible friends and help you at home, too!

Anhata
www.familynaturally.com
Your Family's General Store, Naturally

Lynn's picture

Howdy do

Submitted by Lynn on Thu, 01/19/2006 - 6:28pm.

Welcome to TNH, and the company of the Imaginary Friends. Smiling

Lynn Siprelle, Editor

witchiepoo's picture

Grown Up Socializing

Submitted by witchiepoo on Sat, 01/21/2006 - 10:12am.

I sing in a community choir which rehearses once a week.

I'm in a book club which meets once a month.

I'm in a women's running club which meets 3 times a week.

I'm addicted to this place! Smiling

FWIW
-Jo

Anna's picture

Volunteer Opportunities

Submitted by Anna on Sat, 01/21/2006 - 3:00pm.

The United Way has a website where you can search for volunteer opportunities using your ZIP code.

http://national.unitedway.org/volunteer/

In my area there are many positions in a lot of different fields. Some require a commitment for as little as 4 hours per week. Enough to get out of the house but not too much to take over your new found freedom Smiling

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