I've had Lupus since childhood and have recently become a stay-at-home (large home) and since I don't work, we no longer have any household help. I am wondering what others' experiences have been under similar circumstances and if anyone has any advice, tips, etc. I feel like I'm going to lose it half the time...I almost want to go back to the office just to escape the piles of dishes and hampers of laundry! I love my family and home but it seems almost impossible to take care of EVERYTHING all the time, manage my illness, etc. DH is frequently away for long business trips, too!