NY Times Calls for Homeschooling Oversight

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Submitted by Lynn on Sat, 11/15/2003 - 2:56pm.

NY Times editorial board says homeschoolers need to be watched more closely: Somehow more closely regulating the vast number of law-abiding homeschoolers would have prevented the abuse of four little boys in New Jersey. Because, you know, so many of us homeschoolers are abusing our kids and the schools catch and stop so many cases of abuse.

I really have to wonder what the teachers' unions are up to with editorial boards; first the scurrilous series on the "dark side of homeschooling" on CBS and now this. Link courtesy NHEN.

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Clancy's picture

Sickening

Submitted by Clancy on Sat, 11/15/2003 - 4:51pm.

I think your comment pretty much sums it up:
"Because, you know, so many of us homeschoolers are abusing our kids and the schools catch and stop so many cases of abuse."

They're just looking for something to blame and the fact that they were 'schooled at home' is an easy target. Why does the media feel a need to vilify all homeschooling families based on the horrible results of a few isolated cases? It's about like saying that Ford cars are unsafe because a few fatal accidents have occured when people were driving Fords!

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Geez, and I always thought sc

Submitted by Susannah on Sat, 11/15/2003 - 8:29pm.

Geez, and I always thought school was just for learning your reading, writing and arithmetic. No longer! Now schools (i.e., the state) are the de facto guardians of American children?

At least the "presumption of guilt" extends equally to all parents whether they homeschool or public school.

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Letter to the Editor

Submitted by Danna on Sun, 11/16/2003 - 5:21am.

Dear Editor,

Your homeschooling editorial of November 15, 2003, in which you called for more supervision of homeschooling parents, was way off base. You cite two reasons for your call for more monitoring. The first is so that cases of abuse and neglect can be discovered and reported. While this is an admirable goal, curtailing the freedoms of responsible homeschoolers is not the way to achieve this goal. "Hard cases make bad law," I believe the saying goes. The job of the education establishment is to educate our children (and it's not even living up to that job); it is not to police families. The second reason you gave for the need for more supervision of homeschooling parents is so that the state can be assured that children are learning basic skills. This is also a valid concern but one that is already addressed in states' laws requiring that homeschooled children participate in yearly standardized testing or have annual portfolio reviews. Sending monitors into the homes of homeschooling parents would be a colossal waste of money and an unneeded duplication of efforts in many ways. It woul also impinge on parents' rights to privacy. The education system's job is not to monitor or supervise homeschooling families. Many court cases have shown that this country's Constitution guarantees parents the right to educate their children free from government interference, be this in 18th-century farm country or 21st-century urban America.

Sincerely,
Daneille Vrtar
Dayton, OH

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state laws

Submitted by Lauralyn on Sun, 11/16/2003 - 5:56am.

Danna, that is a great, professional sounding letter! Not the vitriolic kind of thing I'd be tempted to write. Eye-wink

I just wanted to say though, that I have lived (and homeschooled) in two different states now that do not have any oversite of whether the kids are learning anything. In California and in Texas, there are no tests and no papers required to be turned in. In Texas, you just don't send your kids to school. They are legally considered to be private schooled, but you don't have to tell the state anything about it. In California, you do have to file a form declaring your home to be a private school. After that, no further paperwork is required.

However, I still think that the argument that schools should monitor homeschoolers academically is ridiculous in light of how public schools fail so many children. I'm not sure that I would feel good about them interfering even if they were teaching 100% of the kids 100% of the time, but until that happens, I don't think that they are in any position to criticize how homeschoolers do things. I think that school teachers do a great job with what they've got. My respect for them has increased greatly since I began homeschooling. I think it's hard teaching one or two kids. I can't begin to imagine teaching 20 or 30. Jawdropping! But the fact remains that many children don't thrive in the public school environment. So, as far as I'm concerned, if the state wants to interfere in my home, they should at least have to prove my kids would really be better off in school.

Abuse cases belong to CPS, not the local school district.

Lauralyn

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Thanks!

Submitted by Danna on Sun, 11/16/2003 - 4:02pm.

Thanks, Lauralyn! Even as I was writing the letter I wasn't certain that all states required testing or portfolio reviews (and I was too lazy to check to see!! A massive faux pas for a writer!!), so thanks for pointing that out for me. If I remember correctly, the writer of the editorial wanted people to actually visit and monitor homes. If the point is to make sure that kids are learning basic skills, then I would suggest to the editorial writer that standardized testing (which I happen to believe is an *extremely poor* indicator of what a student is learning/knows) or a portfolio review is definitely the way to go. I have sworn that my child will never take a standardized test, but if I were faced with that or having "monitors" invade my home I'd have to go with the testing.

Oh, to live in in CA or TX and not have to submit a portfolio review ... then again, I'm not sure i'd really want to live in either of those states after all. Ohio is, you know, the last bastian of culture in this country!! Laughing out loud

Danna =]

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is that so?

Submitted by Lauralyn on Sun, 11/16/2003 - 4:06pm.

As a matter of fact, I didn't know that Ohio was the last bastion of culture in the country. I'll have to look into that the next time my husband gets bored with his job and wants to relocate Smiling (That will be never if I have anything to say about it. Not because Texas is the greatest state ever. More because I am sick of moving. So we'll just stay here and be thankful for great homeschooling laws.)

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seems to me like the failure had already happened

Submitted by Jennmommy5 on Sun, 11/16/2003 - 10:10am.

If i read correctly some of these children in this story were adopted...I know that all states do some sort of homestudy for adoptions so then how did it get to this point.Sounds to me like the social service department failed in doing its job long before by allowing these abuseres to adopt in the first place,but of course nothing is the fault of the social services departments of this country.It seems no matter how many cases come up where they are sued(i can only imaging how many more where they dont get sued and just get away with it)we dont see any policy change.It was like what was said in the other post about the homebirth.They demand entry into your home without warrent,they demand to search your home without warrent,to search your kids,to review medical records,just whatever they want with no court orders all on annonymus reports.They spend thier time harrassing loving parents and parents who are abusers constantly go unhindered until the situation is dire or fatal.When they take kids from loving homes its a mistake that couldnt be avoided and when kids go unprotected it isnt thier fault they balme the homeschoolers or blame whoever is handy.I belive this is a result of one government agency who doesnt have to uphold constiutional rights.

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A non-homeschooler prespective?

Submitted by jennye on Sun, 11/16/2003 - 12:34pm.

I like what Clancy had to say. It seems this family's case is putting a label on homeschoolers. My dh and I have noticed that whenever you hear of a wreck on the news and a SUV was involved, all of the sudden it's because of the SUV (blamed on the rollover, or death, or something). Or, if the story were turned around on me, taking my children away because farm machinery is dangerous and some kid somewhere was maimed or killed.

And it does seem in this case that something should have been done way before from a social worker or someone who follows up on adoptions.

I do think that something should be done about somehow checking to see if ALL children (homeschooled or not, adopted or not, anything else or not. ALL) are thriving in their enviroments, home and academically. But then you get into privacy issues. There is too much grey area, and I don't have the answer. More teachers, more social workers, more money. Then would those that are doing their best but it isn't good enough for some nitpicky teacher or social worker be scrutinized and action taken against this family rather than the one in NJ (back to the homebirth case)?

I guess the bottom line is, no one is going to be made happy all at the same time. This case pissed off homeschoolers, but it could have just as easily been directed at adoptive parents, or race (whatever they were), or economic factors, housing, occupation; you name it, some "group" is going to be mad about any case.

In a perfect world, we would all get along, all kids would be taken care of and educated well without interferance from the gov't, and money wouldn't be a problem. Star Trek: TNG anyone? Laughing out loud I especially like the idea on ST:TNG of replicators for food and self cleaning ships. LOL!

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Another Non-Homeschooler Perspective

Submitted by katscradle on Mon, 11/17/2003 - 8:36am.

Hello, everyone! This is my first post on the new site, but this discussion intrigued me enough to finally figure out how to navigate through! I have to agree with Jenny's assessment of how the article could have been directed at any "group" and how things would be easy if we lived in a perfect world. If I homeschooled, I'd probably be peeved by this article, too. But as a public schooler, I'm equally peeved by some of the reactions to the article. In your attempts to defend the right to homeschool, many of you seem to have to belittle the public school system. I know that you choose to homeschool because you believe that public schools fail kids, but I choose to do public schools because I believe there are many skills my kids glean from public education that I can't offer them at home. So, we're back to public vs. home. And my argument is that there are good homeschoolers and bad homeschoolers and there are good public schools and bad public schools. I think we do a disservice to each other by continually lambasting the group to which we don't belong. My DH, who is a public school administrator, has seen many homeschooling nightmares. He has seen just as many kids fall through the cracks of the public school system. Do I think that every child should be publicly schooled? No! Do I think that every parent who claims to be a qualified homeschooler actually is? An equally resounding "no"! My husband and his colleagues are legally required to report any suspected cases of abuse. I think that's what was at the heart of this article. There was no one else to "see" what was happening to these kids. No, I don't advocate having your (or my) privacy invaded by "monitors," but you have to admit that there are many kids out there who are suffering at the hands of parents that don't really give a darn. The answer...? If I had it, I'd be a zillionaire. A large percentage of parents who pull their kids out of my husband's school under the guise of homeschooling are doing it just to relieve themselves of the burden of having to face their kids' disciplinary issues day after day. Many of these kids are pulled out of school and their parents leave them to their own devices. There is no schooling happening with these kids--they're just not getting in trouble at school anymore. I'm sure that the homeschoolers on this site are good and dedicated, but you have to admit that not everyone who homeschools is. My take on this article is that with homeschoolers, you're missing the extra set of eyes. If a public school teacher saw a severely malnourished child, he/she is required by law to report it to authorities. If a grocery store cashier sees a severely malnourished child, he/she can choose to report it or not based on his/her own moral code. I think the article is just trying to point out how it's maybe a little "easier" for some of these kids to fall through the cracks. Again, if I homeschooled, I'm sure my defense mechanisms would be up, too, but I'm not sure the article was a blast to homeschoolers--just a cry for help for the little ones who actually need someone to intervene on their behalf.

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It's not about home vs public, really!

Submitted by Lynn on Mon, 11/17/2003 - 9:07am.

...at least for me. Smiling

"I'm sure that the homeschoolers on this site are good and dedicated, but you have to admit that not everyone who homeschools is."

Substitute the word "parent" for "homeschool" in the sentence above and THEN you have the universal truth. It's not a homeschool-specific "problem." With all the pairs of eyes in the world, there are going to be cases that go missing regardless where the child is educated, and if parents want to abuse their children there are numberless ways to avoid detection that don't involve anything remotely like homeschooling. You could simply move to another state, move the kids in late at night, and not let them out of the house. Wasn't there a recent case where children no one knew existed were found starving and dead in the basement of some house? Memory fails.

It makes some folks (not saying you, mind you) more comfortable to scapegoat homeschooling for these cases, and that's what drives us homeschoolers absolutely bugnuts. Ashley Pond, here in Oregon, *had* a public school teacher who reported multiple times that she was being sexually abused--and bless that woman for trying! Nothing happened--no one followed up. She's dead now, and so's her girlfriend Miranda Gaddis. Ashley had been seen many times by neighbors locked out of her apartment FOR THE NIGHT by her dysfunctional mom (who has now lost all her children, finally), and those incidents were reported too, and *still* no help for her. So even when there are many pairs of eyes kids who need help don't get it NOW. And I just don't see how making *me* file more paperwork or have letters after my name or submit to a mandatory in-home government inspection once a year is going to change that or save even one child's life.

If the solution is more government oversight of day-to-day parenting--mandatory enforced home visits and searches for everyone, anyone?--we're in for a world of trouble. Because when you start down this road, that's the ultimate destination. I sound hysterical, I know, but it's not that far-fetched.

Lynn Siprelle, Editor

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supervising parents?

Submitted by Lauralyn on Mon, 11/17/2003 - 12:12pm.

Ok, I am really not this argumentative about everything, but here goes...

To follow up on this idea, at what age should that extra set of eyes be required? It's easy to accept the idea that parents who homeschool should be supervised in some way because their peers who go to school are. But what about my four year old? Should preschool become mandatory so that there is an extra set of eyes to check up on her? Maybe my two year old should go to mandatory day care for the same reason.

This is just my opinion, but I believe that my children are my children and that they are my responsibility (and my husband's) first before the government's. I think that before anyone should be able to demand to oversee my parenting, they should have some reason to suspect something wrong. I don't think that the fact that I homeschool qualifies as that reason. That's all.

Just for the record, I agree that some kids are best off in public school and that some are best off at home. I am glad beyond belief that there are public schools. I can see that at some time I might choose to put my kids in school for a while. I don't think schools are perfect. I don't think I, or any other homeschooling parent is either. I just think that I should be free to do my best for my kids without having to jump through a bunch of government hoops. I am glad that there are many dedicated professionals out there who are doing their best for the kids who do go to school.

Lauralyn

PS It's true that this article could have picked on race or adoptive parents or whatever as a factor in the abuse. If it had, I'm sure other members of that group would have been just as upset as we homeschoolers are.

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I see what your saying, Lynn...

Submitted by jennye on Mon, 11/17/2003 - 10:57am.

So what is the solution? Should we just leave every parent alone? After all, it's their children, if they want to abuse them, screw them up and do whatever, or take care of them right, then the state shouldn't be involved. That takes care of the radical side of social workers (the ones that take kids away because of the nude breastfeeding photo, remember that thread a while back, as well as the homebirth case the other day). Also takes care of the well meaning ones. That is what every parent wants, for the gov't not to be involved in how their children are raised. Freedom to school the way you want (that makes the homeschoolers happy), to discipline the way you want (that makes the spankers but not abusers happy), eating habits (there was a case in Albuquerque not too long ago about a 4 or 5 year old who was REALLY overweight and was taken away. Turned out she has a medical disorder and it wasn't the parents' fault).

Ok, if that isn't the solution, then where do you draw the line? Do we exclude everyone that homeschools because it may make them mad? Exclude by race because that may make someone mad (hmmm, Jesse Jackson comes to mind. He's pissed because Jessica Lynch got a book and movie deal and more disability and Shoshanna didn't, though Shoshanna says SHE'S not angry about it because Jessica's injuries were far more extensive than her own).

Lynn, this may come out wrong. Just remember that I'm just trying to say what's on my mind and I'm not really sure how to get it across. I stopped and vacuumed the house as I thought about how to say this. Laughing out loud I feel I know you are a good mother and good homeschooler.

You took offense to this article because you are a homeschooler and are seeing it from a homeschooler's prespective. It affects you very personally. You don't want anyone coming in and telling you how to school your children. And I think, to you, an outsider (non-homeschooler, in this case) just doesn't understand a bit of where you are coming from. And maybe I don't. But I don't understand what you (not YOU, I mean homeschoolers) want. It sounds like to be left alone, no matter what the costs to those homeschooled children slipping threw the cracks. Not to say that public school are better. I guess there is no solution. But I could easily not allow my children to see other people and no one would know. I could homeschool them, not go to church, have DH watch them while I go to the store, and who would know if my children were abused or starved, especially if I had no family or friends over. Makes you think... You wouldn't ever know, unless the state came out to check on things every now and then.

Now, take that Meatrix thread you and I had going a couple weeks ago. That affected me very personally, because it is sort of attacking the way I make a living. I don't want to only grass-feed my beef, I like the product of grain and grass fed beef. But to you, it's like, why on earth would you not want to? I felt like you were an outsider to my business and didn't understand a bit where I was coming from.

I guess the solution to both problems you and I face are this: You buy your beef from someone that raises it the way you want, and I'll not ask if your kids are meeting any requirements for their level and trust they are well fed, healthy, etc. (which, of course, I know they are).

Well, I'm not sure if you can see what I'm thinking. Smiling Hopefully I put it clearly, but then again, it may have just ticked you off and look at my remarks blindly Laughing out loud Which is the way I think we all sometimes look at things when we are on the defensive. I don't want to see your way of raising beef or attachment parenting, maybe you don't want to see my prespective of the article, my take on regulation of homeschooling, or of parenting for that matter.

It's all prespective, isn't it
Smiling :) Smiling :) Smiling :)

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no offense meant, none taken

Submitted by Lynn on Mon, 11/17/2003 - 12:58pm.

I don't take offense at anything you've said. I do take offense to the article because it's pointing fingers in the wrong direction. When I say "you" please read "you in general," not you in particular, Jenny.

Homeschooling had nothing to do with the terrible problems these children had, and even were homeschooling regulated within an inch of its life or even illegal it would probably have not stopped these people; there's always a way for the dedicated dysfunctional to get around detection.

Government (and neighbors, and extended family) does need to watch out for children. And there also is a line that has to be drawn on government intervention into the lives of families. Do you really want the state coming out to check on you every now and again, whether you want them to or not, whether it's needed or not, to question every single thing you do? (And a larger question--do you want to PAY for that? Social services are spread too thin as things stand now.)

We as a society have to decide where that line should be drawn, but it can't be driven by fear of the unknown. Homeschooling is unknown to most people, and so it unfairly gets targeted by "reformers" who fear it. We waste time, energy and resources on both sides--the "reformers" targeting us and the homeschoolers defending ourselves--that could better be spent on actually helping kids who need us. It's a deflection. The uncharitable could even say it's a misdirection--"pay no attention to the man behind the curtain, look over here at these unregulated people who may or may not be abusing their kids, we just don't know!" Regulation and oversight can only save so many.

I'm sorry you took my comments about raising beef the wrong way; I literally said at the time I have no idea of the realities of the cattle ranching business and I'd never tell you how to do it! Smiling And I certainly didn't mean it to come off as an attack--a "you are wrong if you farm this way." If anything I was trying to make you aware of a burgeoning market you mightn't have known about; I don't know ranching but I do know a growing number of family farms are saving themselves by going grass-fed and marketing directly. That was my only real point. (Keep in mind we eat a LOT of beef, and only about half of it is grass-fed because I a) just can't get it and b) often can't afford it when I *can* get it. Encouraging ranchers to go grass-fed is strictly selfish on my part, and I'll immediately cop to that, but I'm not the only one out here looking for it.) If you knew about that market and still chose not to grow for it, that's one thing and that's fine, but I just wanted to make sure you knew about that market to begin with. That's all. Smiling

Lynn Siprelle, Editor

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I agree with Lynn

Submitted by Susannah on Mon, 11/17/2003 - 1:25pm.

I understand where Lynn's coming from...in this case, to defend homeschoolers' rights is to defend the rights of all parents. I do believe that parents are responsible for their children, not the state! I hardly need to point out that there are laws already on the books to prosecute child abusers. We need to stay away from the social engineering business because it ends up impinging on personal freedoms. It amazes me that we've come to the point where we have judges telling parents whether they will immunize their children, etc., much less how they will parent them.

This is an imperfect (in my view, fallen) world, rife with tragedy and injustice. No government on earth, no matter how well-conceived & democratic, will be able to eliminate abuse, and certainly not by micromanaging every single person who ever has a child. The only way to eliminate abuse would be for every parent to be a good, principled & loving person. For evidence that gov't is not good at micromanagement, consider that social services already routinely fail children, as Lynn pointed out and as the case under consideration glaringly illustrates. That's the inefficient (to say the least) nature of beauraucracy. Of course we all feel for overloaded social workers, as we do for public school teachers.

The fact is, the gov't has no business coming into our homes without a warrant based on probable cause. If in doubt about this, read the Constitution, Fourth Amendment.

http://www.house.gov/Constitution/Amend.html

When abuse is discovered, then the law comes into play. Solid evidence of abuse (not anonymous tips) can warrant search & seizure. But if a person indicted for a crime is innocent until proven guilty, how much *more* so a parent who's just going about their daily business? Of course children ought not be the victims of injustice or crime any more than adults, but, as many crimes go undiscovered or unsolved by the police, and so does much child abuse by DFACS. Sad

If social ills could be solved by meddling beaureaucrats, wouldn't we be a bit closer to utopia by now?

Danna's letter was wonderfully rational & concise BTW. Smiling

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Lynn, No, I don't want the go

Submitted by jennye on Mon, 11/17/2003 - 3:18pm.

Lynn, No, I don't want the gov't coming to check on me, though if they must, go ahead, I have nothing to hide or be ashamed of (as I'm sure you don't either). Smiling And, like you, I can think of lots better ways for the gov't to spend it's money. I knew I would mess up saying what I was trying to get across. I know you didn't mean ME. Smiling And I took your beef comments the way you meant them. I was just trying to say how different prespectives are when you are on two completely different sides of the fence, not trying to raise the beef argument on a homeschool thread. Although the article points it's finger at homeschoolers, I, not being a homeschooler, don't find it near as offensive as you [homeschoolers]. Now, as you said earlier, put "parent" in for "homeschoolers", and I would.

I'll shut up now Laughing out loud, cuz all I have to say I already said. LOL! Just that yes, we need gov't intervention somewhere, the question is, where and how much.

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Eeek!

Submitted by Danna on Mon, 11/17/2003 - 4:53pm.

"Lynn, No, I don't want the gov't coming to check on me, though if they must, go ahead, I have nothing to hide or be ashamed of ..."

Eeek, Jenny! That's really chilling that you would say that. There is NO reason that the government "must" come into your home without probably cause and a warrant. It saddens me that people are so willing to give up their Constitutional rights. There can really be NO good outcome to that. Opening the door just a crack allows the gale force wind to get a foothold for blowing it wide open.

Child abuse is child abuse and education is education and the two really have no relation to each other. Abuse needs to be addressed as a problem. Homeschooling isn't a problem and therefore shouldn't be treated as one.

Oh, and btw, as a former DYFS (Dept. of Youth and Family Services) worker and a former Head Start social worker, I can attest most definitely to the fact that there are myriad ways to abuse a child that won't be detected at school.

Danna =]

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HSLDA Answers NYT

Submitted by Susannah on Sat, 11/22/2003 - 7:47am.

From the Home School Legal Defense Association website:

To the Editor,

The recent editorial 'Make Home Schooling Safe for Children' called for increasing the regulation of homeschools because homeschool families may be hiding their children from government officials in order to abuse them. The suggestion that the New Jersey family at issue was not discovered because they were homeschooled is factually incorrect. They were a foster family. They had adopted children. Both of these activities normally require home visits. Moreover, this family had 38 social worker visits in the past five years. How can anyone seriously suggest that this family successfully hid from social workers because of homeschooling? Nine employees of New Jersey Department of Youth and Family Services were fired for missing what should have been obvious. This case is not about homeschooling. If anything, it is about the failure of child protective services.

It is unfair to take, as the Times did, a sensational case involving an alleged homeschool family and imply that many other homeschool families are likely to be abusing their children as well. Unfortunately, an editorial like this plants a seed in the public's mind that there is a link between home education and child abuse. Consequently, some people might actually believe it and use the anonymous tip procedures available to report homeschool families for abuse and neglect without any factual basis for doing so. Child Protective Services are obligated to follow-up these reports and homeschool families will face unwarranted harassment. This already happens all too frequently to families all across America. More importantly, real abuse will be missed because the system may be clogged with false reports.

Homeschooling meets the educational needs of 2 million children and is the safest environment to teach children to become mature productive adults. It deserves fairer treatment.

Sincerely,

J. Michael Smith
President, Home School Legal Defense Association

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