Help I'm in love with depressed person.

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Submitted by driven on Mon, 01/12/2004 - 12:48pm.

About three four months ago I started seeing a man that I've now fallen in love with. Everything started out wonderful and then things changed. He has stood me up on at least two occassions with no phone call or explaination. I know that he fights depression but I had no idea that it was so bad. He will go through bouts where he won't call or answer phone calls for days. I confronted him about a week ago and told him that if he wasn't into this relationship to tell me. We can cut our losses and go our separate ways. He assured me that he was and stated that he couldn't talk to be about his depressive problem because it was too difficult. I'm a patient and understanding person but I'm at my wits end. I don't want a parttime boyfriend.

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sounds like me

Submitted by michelin (not verified) on Wed, 02/20/2008 - 6:01pm.

It totally sounds like me. I have the exact same problem. I tried so hard too. But there's no way to communicate with him. I can only wait and see. People tell me to just ignore him. I can't do that. Has it developed since then?

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