Bad News
Well--about 4 months ago I posted that I was pregnant, although it was very early. Two weeks ago tomorrow I went to a routine visit (16 weeks), and there was no heartbeat. An ultrasound confirmed that the baby had died sometime in the last few weeks. This is my second miscarriage, and we're pretty heartbroken this time. I had a D&C, which was fairly horrifying. Luckily, the anesthesiologist gave me a general, so I don't remember anything except the first five minutes in the OR. The nurse kept questioning me on exactly what happened, and why I was having the procedure, and saying that they don't usually do D&C's here, etc. I maintained my composure, although I wanted to throw up and/or throw a grade-school worthy punch. It was not good.
I'm almost 36 now, and we are just hoping that we will be able to have another baby. I was already showing and in maternity clothes (big time), and had told just about everyone, including DS3.
At the same time, we are so thankful to have our beautiful DS3. I'm trying to keep positive and keep things in perspective. Thanks for listening...
User login
Navigation
Recent blog posts
- The Newbie
- The Year of Breaking Things
- Beware angry dairy farmers
- In praise of computers for kids
- Chemistry Fun with Pennies
- A month’s worth of probiotics for the price of a cabbage!
- Gluten Free Sourdough Bread as an Intuitive Art
- caring for fleece
- A niece! I has one!
- Yearbook Yourself, or, excellent time waster
Who's online
There are currently 0 users and 17 guests online.
My heart goes out to you
I know how awful it feels. I am so very sorry, Joanna. ((((Hugs)))) to you and your family.
so sorry
I can't imagine what this is like for you. My deepest sympathy goes to you and your family.
I'd also like to apologize to you on behalf of my pre-SAHM profession, nursing. The actions of the pre-op nurse are simply inexcusable, and they are grounds for a formal complaint if you wish to do so.
{hugs}
Rose
I'm so sorry
Big (((((HUGS))))) from me as well Joanna.
Joanna
I had two miscarriages before I had Josie. It sucks. {{{{big hugs}}}}
Lynn Siprelle, Editor
very sorry
I am sorry Joanna.
so sorry
I'm so sorry, Joanna. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
Condolences
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you can find comfort and peace, and eventually have the child you want so much.
Here are some websites that may help you find support and more information:
Miscarriage@About.com
QuietRefuge.com
Miscarriage Information
Many Blessings.
((((Joanna))))
I'm so sorry to hear your sad news, Joanna.
love
Honey xx
So Sorry
I am so sorry, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Joanna
My prayers are with you, too. I am so sorry for the loss of your precious one.
Blessings,
Lenora
Hugs
Thinking of you Joanna... hope you find comfort in those you love.
Kerri.
Thanks!
Thank you all for listening. I'm feeling OK and keeping busy--this house has never been cleaner
Joanna
warm fuzzy from me to you
My thoughts are with you.Sending much love and hugs.
I'm so sorry. I've been ther
I'm so sorry. I've been there, almost the exact same sequence of events. If you ever need to talk...
Update
We got the pathology report from the D&C yesterday, and got an answer--the baby was triploid. From conception, it had 3 chromosomes instead of the normal 2. It may sound weird, but this was a huge relief to me. There was nothing at all I could have done to change the outcome, and these babies never survive for more than a few days, on the rare occurence that they reach full term. I feel like we can start over now, and I hope I can conceive again.
Thanks for the good wishes, and for listening.
Joanna
Closure
I am glad that you got the anwers that could help you find closure to this sad stepping stone in life.My best wishes for your future and I must say your an incredibly strong woman keeping your head up this way in such a trying time.I just know in my heart the sun will shine bright in your future.
Post new comment