Thanks ladies...we have come to the conclusion that DD is frustrated and then gets so worked up she won't listen to what we are telling her. She is also trying to show-off a bit and be "big" by not listening and doing exactly what we told her not to do. We runa strict home and this is not allowed at all! She will scream her head off for hours in her room if we let her! We are now trying to get her to see that we should deal with our problems and find a way to fix what's wrong...not just cry till we feel better because nothing was learned. If we all just ran around our house crying and screaming when we were upset...boy it would be a loud house! LOL...Maybe a good long time alone in her room will work...we'll see! Thanks!

KAK