First, don't lose hope. With your determination, you will get to the bottom of this, I am sure.

You might want to check out this site www.realmilk.com.

Many find they are intolerant of "commercial milk", myself included. Real (raw) milk is clean, unpasturized and loaded with healthy fats and probiotics that we actually need.

Another great site is: http://www.westonaprice.org/
This site is loaded with info on real foods, the benefits of going back to real foods (as opposed to processed).

While raw milk is not legal in all states (mine included) I drive 2 hrs every week or two to get mine out of my state - I go to a state where it is legal, know my farmer, his farming practices and even the cows I am getting my milk from. I would not get any raw milk from a commercial so-called "organic" farm, because of their practices. If you do decided to go this route, let me know and I can give you more info.

Hope this helps

Kathy