No one wants to be told that they've caused their illness. Just be careful how you frame this. I'm sure there could be many "you caused it" explanations, for instance, for what happened to me, but I don't want someone telling me I "wanted" to die. (And I know you're not saying that, I'm sayin' be careful, m'dear.)

Having said that, I wish you could make it all better too. Wouldn't it be wonderful if we could do that? I'll add your family to my prayer list.

Lynn Siprelle, Editor