I'm cooking this year...but only for 11. Definitely manageable!

Crab dip
Pepper and onion relish (ready)
(both w/ assorted crackers)
fresh veggie tray (veges cut, dip ready)

Turkey and dressing (dressing made)
ham (small)

stuffed potatoes (potatoes baked)
sweet potatoes (my mom)
green bean casserole (my friend)
ginger glazed carrots
green salad with winter fruit and lemon-poppyseed dressing (dressing made!)
rolls (will rise in 'frige overnight!)(rising)
cranberry sauce (already done and cooling!)
relish tray
spiced peaches (next!) (done)

Apple pie (baking)
Other desserts (friend)

Iced tea (brewing)
coffee
sodas (chilling)