I thought I'd closed comments on that page. (They're closed now! )

As for your dilemma: Recruit help from your friends and especially your hubby (it's his mom). If you can, hire a one-time someone to help you clean. Even if it's just a high school girl, it'll help. Don't try to do all the cooking yourself. Ask for help! When you reach the end of the time you can devote to it, give the rest of it over to your chosen higher power and relax and enjoy yourself as much as you can.

Did I mention asking for help? Yes.

Lynn Siprelle, Editor