yes a little venting gets us more wound up for a little while, but I still firmly believe it helps in the long run, and it is so much better to vent here than let DH have te first draft of how you felt!!

hope he has more luck with the 2nd round of repairs Anhata. And look at it this way - if he's so good normally that this came as such a shock, then you have a lot to be thankful for. When you've got past the urge to hit him with what's left!

very brave of you Angel, but it usually is something else that sets off a reaction that is completely out of proportion or out of character like this, although if DH asks me considerately again whether I have PMS I may just come over to get Anhata's spindly thingy to use as a weapon!!!

Kerri.