Thanks so much Zillah. I have printed it out to read properly again. I really would like my home to be a place of 'friendliness, refreshment and peace', in fact I have a quote on my wall (which I can't remember offhand as it's downstairs and I'm not) which is more or less to that effect.I think the peace is the most difficult part for me, I get stressed and overwhelmed sometimes and therefore miserable and/or ratty.

The idea of striving for simplicity really resonates with me today. We have a very small home with far too many objects in it for a start. I also feel that my life is quite complicated and there are certain things I could just let go of, and be happier.

Thanks Zillah, you have given me food for thought.