take comfort in knowing your grandmother is getting everything she needs and being looked after well. If she's as comfortable as they can make her that's probably the most important thing at the moment, whatever the result. Must be hard for your grandfather to watch though, and exhausting too. Is someone making sure he is well looked after too?? A vigil like this is so draining.

thinking of you Becky - it isn't easy for you to not be there, but I think your parents have a point in that she wouldn't know you.

Kerri.