Thanks.
Luckily, I've been an avid reader of The Tightwad Gazette, so really, we're pinching things that have already been pinched (poor Lincoln).
Mainly I'm looking at the moving costs, but we think cheapest will be a do-it yerselfer truck. Then to decide if it's worth driving the two wee ones, or if it's better to fly them (ages 2.5 and 9 mos). It's a 22 hour drive (straight, probably longer with these 2) or a 4 hour flight. Decisions, decisions. Of course, nothing that others have not done and accomplished!!