we'll probably join you if you start us off. We're just too idle to do anything ourselves this year I reckon! What are your plans, or what would you like to change? I've been changing from SAHM to businesswoman and SAHM - it's been exhausting!

be gentle with yourself for a while, but see if you can't do something to boost your mood a bit - if you've got good weather get out and enjoy it. Three months of nursing someone close is very draining, so be careful about what you expect of yourself for a while.

Kerri.