I tried once to put all of DH's clothes on his side of the bed. No matter where he left them, I piled them over there. I was going to teach him that if he wanted his clothes washed, they had to be in the hamper. Wanna know how he retaliated?

He would search thru all the dirty stuff to find the things he wanted cleaned and put THOSE in the hamper. Yes, I know, it would have been easier for him to just throw it all in the hamper. Apparently that didn't cross his mind.

And so I just live with it.