I wasn't trying to say that TNH wasn't doing a good job, if I didn't love it, I wouldn't bother coming. I'm just saying that if people don't find you, it's nice to have SOMETHING to turn to. Plus, I've been at home for 2 years now -with internet connection-and just found TNH, even though I read lots of home/family stuff. I was glad when I found it, but wish it was easier to find. I was the first of my SAHM friends to even come across TNH, but they appreciated the referral. So, sorry if my last comment seemed like a bash, no intention of that, just saying we should give those who have the same goal some credit.