Ok, update since this thread has been resurfaced.

CB, dont' tell me that! I get an IUD later this month! LOL!

I've always done the mini-pill after all four of my children while I was breastfeeding. Then as soon as weaning was over, to a higher dosed pill. It's always worked really good for me, never any unexpected pregnancies here. DH really doesn't want anymore children. And while I wouldn't mind more, I think at this point in my life 4 is all I can handle effectively. So I was surprised that when DH started to make his appointment for a little snipping, that I started bawling! He was relieved (because he doesn't want anyone messing around down there anyway. LOL!). I talked to my nurse practitioner/midwife and she has suggest the IUD. So that is what I am going to do.

And if I happen to get pregnant on it, well, it was meant to be then and really out of my hands. But for now, DH sleeping on the sofa and a toddler that refuses to sleep in his own bed works well, too. Better than CB's 2nd suggestion! LOL! Though lately I've come close (just kidding of course! LOL! Just a stressful time right now. Spring does that down here on the farm. So much to do and not enough time before wheat is ready to cut...)