Please help!!! I have sister in-laws and a mother in-law that find being a homemakers useless. I care for my parents and my husband, son, and daughter have been in and out of the hospital the last five years. I work really hard. My son is in college now but, may well need my help as he may need lung surgery again soon. I wish I had good comebacks or did not care but, I do and it hurts. My father had stage III colon cancer and has been in the hospital nine times since his diagnosis in 2004. I have been a teacher and my husband was in the military. He has a time consuming but, wonderful job now and he travels. My daughters are in middle school and high school. I homeschooled my three children for a number of years while we moved five times in five years. Please what do you say to defend yourself for caring for others? Could someone please encourage me?