And another thing, perhaps you could put a paypal button on your personal webpage? I for one would love to send you what I could afford.

And even though you don't want your daughters adoption viewed as charity, tink of it this way (as a lot of us do)

You may have selfish reasons for wanting her in your family., you love her, you really want her in your life. Hey, that's why we all have kids. But you are also taking a sweet girl from a not-so-nice part of the world and raising her with love and opportunity. A very good "cause."