1. The Chronic Illness Experience: Embracing the Imperfect Life, by Cheri Register
2. Cereal for Dinner: Strategies, Shortcuts, and Sanity for Moms Battling Illness, by Kristine Breese

These both address housekeeping questions, at least in part. Also if you google around for fibromyalgia, arthritis, CFS, lupus, "chronic illness," etc. and add "housework" "housekeeping" etc. to your search string, you can find some useful websites.

How do you make italics, anyway?