Well Im new here, and Im on here because of this discussion on this forum. I found out my dd, who is 7.5 (the 1/2 is very important to her!) has grade 2 reflux just within the last couple of months. We were told this last monday that she is now scheduled for corrective surgery the 20th of December. I am scared to death. I was too dumbstuck at the time to even think to ask questions, and the more I read on the internet, the more worried I am getting. The ped. Urologist that will do the surgery says he does about 50 a year, and it will be done at a good hospital...but.....this is major and I am trying to keep it together and I dont want to break down. I was told this isnt going to go away, since she is 7. She has been on a preventative med. for about 2 months now. Before that is was one UTI after another since last Nov. Sad to meet with you all this way, nice to know Im not as alone as Im feeling.