I stayed at home for awhile with my first, and had to return to workfor our medical insurance. When I had my son 2 1/2 years later, I did stay at home full time. I was always lucky enough to have family close by and they babysat. I worked 3 days a week, one day she would be with my mom, one day my mother-in-law, and one day with my grandparents. It was such a perfect soloution, and I realize how blessed I was to have them. My third was born 5 1/2 years later, and again I stayed home. Having been on both sides of the fence, and after talking to hundreds of moms over the years, (I am a hairstylist), I truly feel if you can work just part time its great! It gets you out of the house, gives you and the kids a break from each other, and you feel like you are contributing to the family finances. While your kids are with another person, it gives them a chance for change. They get the opportunity to interact with someone other than "MOM". After a few hours away, I would return home revived, and ready to tackle those dishes and laundry! I am the type of person who, the less time I have, the more I can accomplish. If I am home all day, it seems nothing gets done. With working a few hours, I have to be more organized. How 'bout other moms? Libby