I did go to Dr. Phil last night and a few other sites too, and got out my books again. I am also going to do a phone conference with one or two counselors and meet with one other. I think I am formulating a good plan, but DH and I need to get together on this and then talk with him about it in a calm moment.

We all could use some stress reduction therapy around here, so we may even just do something really different this weekend as a family, maybe get away for awhile. DH has also redoubled his efforts to get the room done to get DS out of his basement (dark and cold) room and into the light and warmth.

Thank you again, you wonderful people, for proving that community can exist anywhere. I feel better writing to you folks about it because I know you aren't going to judge us. I felt better as soon as I hit send on the post.
Love,
-Jo