My kids don't wake up for midnight snacks. But when they go to Grammies, they are usually up that late anyway. They get oranges, apples, motzerella cheese sticks, popcorn and cheerios. Not all at once, those are just various things they eat, depending on whats in the fridge and what they are in the mood for.

I wouldn't cut out the milk. Kids need milk. Whole milk. That's my opinion. I do give Chocolate milk, but only on Friday and Saturday nights. It's their special treat for the weekend.