My daughter just decided at 4yrs. old too that pullups were for babies and really begged not to wear them. We decided to help her out by doing the following and are happy to report our extra effort is paying off: 1.) No liquids after 6:30pm; 2.) potty before bedtime; 3.) wake her up when you go to bed or around midnight to have her go again. We are happy to report, she has been staying dry for the past 5 nights since we implemented this!! Hope this helps. We are now just trying to figure out when will we be able to stop the nightly rousings or for how long to implement this step before stopping.