I am totally on the same boat, my DS refuses feeding while he is awake, and would like to get nursed right after going into sleep.

The Doc think that's because of reflux, so gave him the medication; however, it seems make him comfortable for the first day, but really doesn't help a lot. He still doesn't want to take neither the bottle, the sippy cup or my breast while he is awake.

The good thing is that he is also happy and alert. Maybe he just somehow established this kind of feeding behavior while I tried too hard to give him the bottle.