Hello first !

I think I would have to get my siblings together and tell them that you need their help [as mom does too]and that you are selling moms[yours really] house and she is going to where she will get better care,,,,and if THEY CARE about their mother that they will help you make this move . ANd that it will be very telling of their feelings if they don't help you.

help can come in many forms and I am sure everyone can do SOMETHING to help,,,even talking to mom would be good

or you could say that you are selling the house and which one of you is going to take mom in??[[[IT WOULD BE SAD,, but see how fast they help you!!

good luck and realize that deep down your mom knows YOU care