I was a SAHW long before I was a SAHM, so I've had a dose of it both ways. First thing you must understand is that staying home isn't for everyone. If you hate it or are bored silly, then maybe a full or part time job is something you'd like? I have a friend who has moved several times and the first things she does is find someplace to volunteer. Usually hospitals, libraries, schools, SOS for battered women, etc.. . those places love to have volunteers and you can set how much time you are willing to put into it. Also, it gets you out in the public eye and jobs are a bit easier to come by when you are out and amongst working people.

If you aren't looking for a job and just want something to alleviate the boredom, take stock of your interests. I loved sewing and I sewed for my nieces, things for my house, quilted, etc. when I was home with no kids. I read a lot, got acquainted with neighbors and made friends with others. . most of them were moms because there weren't many SAHW's. The only thing to watch there is not getting used as everyone's babysitter. I always enjoyed spending time with kids, but at my invitation and convenience. If your interests lie in yoga and dance, is it something you could teach a class in yourself to make a little money?

Get out and walk daily around the area where you live. Perhaps there is another SAHW or SAHM who would love someone to visit with, walk with daily, meet for lunch occasionally.

Computers and cyber friends are wonderful, but "real" friends are needed too.