Your right, knowing the backround does make it more understandable why you are frusterated. I do day care, and I occasionally end up with parents who shouldn't have been parents in the first place. I do night time day care (for parents who work nights), and I've had to deal with a lot of partiers. One child never came with panties or shoes, another always comes in pi$$y smelling clothes. Frankly, I would NEVER vote for it, but I sometimes wish that people had to get a license to have kids. (Like, I said, if it ever came up for vote, I'd vote no, but nonetheless. . . you know what I mean.) Anyway, good luck dealing with the child, and his mom.