is it also possible that what one person calls being a "virgin" is not what another calls being a virgin

the reason I say this is because on TV,,ok a date show this guy was professing to be a virgin. In conversation the couple got into talk of a blow job;;;HIS WORD:: ok if his old girl friend gave him "oral sex" is he still a virgin??? In my mind NOOOOO I feel this is very unfair to his dates as if they are a true virgin and want to marry a man who is a TRUE virgin she is being dupped. Notice the guy did not say oral sex as that would give him away as a fake.

ok it does not matter to me a persons personal choice as to whether they are a virgin when they marry. But I do feel we need to be more honest as to WHAT a virgin IS!!

would this not also marr the statistics for such studies????

just a note,, this is not the first time I have heard someone call themselves a virgin after having oral sex.

I wonder if in these studies the people have to disclose just what they have done in their lives,,,would this change things??

I am sure you can get a STD and NOT have to have penetration!!