Go to an Al-Anon meeting. Actually go to six different ones (as in, they meet in different places and at different times) before you make up your mind whether they can help you. The people in that fellowship are supportive, compassionate and nonjudgemental. It's help for YOU, not the alcoholic; it's not about how you can change your brother-in-law, it's about how you can help yourself.

Lynn Siprelle, Editor